30 Ways for 30 Days to show simple ways of affection

When I started to think about Valentine’s Day I wanted to show my husband that there are ways to celebrate that doesn’t cost a dime. I wanted to do this for two reasons. One is that he is accustomed to events and holidays celebrated with balloons, banners, presents, the whole nine yards. There is nothing wrong with having all those decorations and extras but I wanted to show my husband what I cherish most is the thought and creativity of it all. My second reason is we are watching how we spend our money, especially now that we have a new born!

With those two reasons in mind I brainstormed on how I could be romantic for Valentine’s without a cost. During my brainstorm event another thought crossed my mind. Why plan for just one day? Valentine’s Day is to show your affection and love but I wanted it to last longer than just the one day. I wanted to take this opportunity to possibly start something special and rekindle our relationship. Since I got pregnant our romantic life has slowed down to prepare for another baby and for us both taking on side jobs to help the family income. That’s when I created my list of 30 ways for 30 days.

30 ways for 30 days is a list of quick, easy, and simple ways to show you care and that your thinking of your partner. I did not do each action item in order. It would depend on the day and mood that we were in. Below is my 30 ways for 30 days to show your affection. Join my email list to receive the template to track and check off each way you showed your affection!  

1.       Give a surprise hug and kiss

2.       Have sticky notes with cute messages in random places

3.       Send a sexy text message

4.       Make their favorite meal

5.       Read up on something they are interested in and discuss

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6.       Let them pick the movie/show

7.       Help them with a project they are working on

8.       Make them have a man’s/girls night

9.       Plan a date night

10.   Make them a treat

11.   Give them a massage

12.   When they arrive home make a big deal out of it other by yourself or w kids

13.   Wash the cars

14.   Give them a compliment every day

15.   Give a passionate kiss before work

16.   Explain what your grateful for

17.   Surprise them with getting dressed up for them

18.   Focus on them, turn off your phone and t.v

19.   Play a game together

20.   Create a new dish together

21.   Slow dance in the living room or outside under the stars

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22.   Set up a backyard starry night date

23.   Take a long walk together

24.   Take cute selfies together

25.   Create a bucket list together

26.   Do something to make them laugh

27.   Figure how to encourage them

28.   Make a point to smile more and be positive

29.   Learn about their hobby

30.   Explain why they are so special

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